To AI or not to AI…
Here’s a challenge… These are the profiles I have used on a dating site, VietnamCupid. One was written by my fair hand, one by Davo (aka ChatGPT). If you have a spare moment and are interested in playing along, guess which profile was written by whom.
Profile 1
About me:
** Moving to Da Lat in May or June **
Witty, charming, humorous, loves to laugh, optimistic, highly educated, published author, counselling psychologist, professional communicator, does not gamble, does not smoke, enjoys wine but does not get drunk. Ready to love again after divorce six years ago. Respectful, kind, loving, optimistic, forgiving, has boundaries, life-long learner. Absolutely would move/relocate to be with the right partner, but not to HCMC (too hot and humid). Smells nice. Is not looking for being crazy in love, but calm in love instead, stable in love, patient in love, understood in love, safe in love.
Looking for:
** If you don’t fill in your profile I won’t answer your emails **
Tertiary-educated and fluent English language skills. Femininity, grace, charm, quiet confidence, works to ensure home is peaceful and not full of chaos, has great sense of humour, loves life, witty, wants to be treated as an equal. Is attractive physically, emotionally intelligent, and has a beautiful spirituality. Wants and keeps peace in the home, is not subservient, finds a way the two of us can communicate in the way that encourages, recognises, and uplifts us both. You should give peace of mind and reassurance, not constant little heart attacks and high anxiety.
Profile 2
About me
** Relocating to Da Lat in May or June – Looking for calm love, deep humour, and someone who smells amazing **
I’m witty, emotionally steady, and a bit cheeky in just the right way. A published author, counselling psychologist, and professional communicator. I don’t smoke or gamble, and while I enjoy a glass of good wine, I’ve left my party days far behind. I smell nice, I listen well, and I value peace over drama. I’ve rebuilt after divorce and I’m now ready to open my heart again—but not for a whirlwind romance. I’m looking for something safe, stable, and emotionally nourishing. In love, I seek calm—not chaos. Steadiness, not games, understanding, not endless drama. I believe in growing together. I have boundaries, but I’m forgiving. I don’t want “crazy in love”—I want to build a sanctuary together, where laughter is common and anxiety is rare.
What I’m looking for
** Please don’t message me if your profile is blank. I believe in showing up honestly **
You’re fluent in English and have a tertiary education. You’re elegant, emotionally intelligent, and quietly confident. You value communication that uplifts, not tears down. You bring grace to conflict, and warmth to intimacy. You want a partner—not a boss, not a servant. You’re feminine, witty, and grounded in a calm spirituality. You want to feel cherished, and you want to give peace in return. If your idea of love includes safety, laughter, emotional connection, and building a peaceful home—then we might be very right for each other.
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